The soldier's lot is hard. However, so that the guys in the unit don’t get bored, their girlfriends and just good friends write letters to the soldiers.

If you don’t know how to write to a guy in the army, you can fix this by reading a sample letter to the army.

Remind me of your feelings

So that your friend or beloved guy does not get bored in the army, try to write in a letter not only and not so much about your feelings. Of course, you can also write about them, especially if you are writing to your soldier love letter. First you should say hello, remind the guy that you are his love you very much, What miss you and look forward to meeting you, after all it is most important. This concludes the welcome part.

Write to your boyfriend about everything

Next comes the main part, which contains some narration. Let this be a story about what new happened in your family during the guy’s absence, what his friends tell him, how your yard or neighborhood has changed. Or maybe a new one opened in the city while your loved one is in the service? shopping mall? Write about it, hint that you definitely want to go there together. If a new PK&O was put into operation during this time, be sure to say that you will need to take a walk there together as soon as possible. And so on.

Are you finishing your letter? Write about your feelings again

So, the letter ends, everything new has already been told, including your plans. It remains to finish the message correctly. If you are writing to your boyfriend, again, write about how much you love him and how much you miss him. Just don't copy the welcome part of the letter, better dream up. Be sure to assure the guy that you will write to him again very soon. And try to write more often. You can place at the end of the letter a love poem invented by you personally or by your acquaintances/friends. If this option is not suitable for you, then take a couple of lines about love from a poem some famous poet, for example, Pushkin, Lermontov, Nekrasov and others. Unforgettable classics are always in fashion, especially when it comes to expressing love.

If the addressee is just yours good friend, you can put on paper the memories of your joint tricks, about how interesting it was for you together. Let your friend also remember the most bright moments your friendship. And then you can say goodbye - not for long, of course, until the moment when you again want to write to the guy in the army.

Another important nuance is the formatting of the letter.

Writing a letter is not everything. If you want your boyfriend to get not just great, but great pleasure from reading your letter, you can perfume the piece of paper with the message with your perfume, which he is crazy about. You can leave a kiss on the paper, putting on your lips with lipstick, the color of which he likes so much. Another option is to put a swan, dove or some other figure folded using the origami technique in the envelope along with the letter. In general, everything is limited here solely by your imagination.

Many guys, coming from the army, become completely different people. And some change a lot, sometimes so much that they start a new life. If you are left “overboard”, do not torment yourself under any circumstances - you are not to blame for anything. In this case, register on the dating site Teamo.ru. This will give you the opportunity to find a person who truly loves you, about whom you will already know a lot, even before you have seen it with your own eyes.

This will be the very first news for her boyfriend in the army, and perhaps even the first real letter in her life! For example, here’s a short message written by a waiting girl: “Hello, my dear! I’ve been meaning to write to you for a long time, I’ve been thinking about how to start and what to write about, because I have so much on my mind - it’s hard to put it all into words. I miss you very much.” to you, I count every day after your departure. I used to cry all the time, but now it’s easier because time is passing and our meeting is getting closer! What saves me from sadness is thinking about the time when we will be together. Walking through the autumn park, I think about how you will arrive, I replay past moments in my head, I dream about our future.

Sample letter to a soldier in the army from a girl

They say that absence makes you stronger, but I feel powerless, knowing that I won’t see you any time soon. I really need your warm hands and tender gaze.


Every day I think about our upcoming meeting. I want you to always know that I love you very much. My beloved! You are so far from me. Loneliness settled in my heart. I miss you very much.


I live in thoughts of you, of your love. I'm waiting for the moment when I see you again, your smile, feel the kiss on my cheek. I'm waiting for your return. Every day I look at the road, expecting to see you.
Believe me, I'll wait. Nothing will stop me from loving you. A letter to a loved one in the army in prose My dear! You are the bravest, strongest and most reliable man. There are few people like you, that's why I love you so much. Even though there is a long distance between us now, I constantly remember your eyes when you looked at me, your gentle smile and such a familiar voice.

Letter to my beloved guy in the army

I won't be offended if your reaction is about the same. For you (all men) everything is completely different! And you just need to accept it, because fighting is useless.

Attention

How to redo anything in them. It's hard for me to fall asleep without you. Even the stars dim when I look at them and miss you! Once (back when we were dating and you were not serving) I saw a star that was very similar to the color of your eyes! Interesting comparison, isn't it? I tried to dedicate poems to you...

So far the rhyme is “lame”, but I will polish it too. You will receive poems from me as a gift. I know that you have a very positive attitude towards poetry.

Important

There is an envelope in front of me. I really want to put into it all the love that I feel for you. But I’m afraid that my huge feelings won’t even fit in a parcel post.


I'm sorry! It’s not my fault that I love you more and more every second! Fate, in general, is like this.

Letter to the army to the beloved soldier guy sample

This will immediately cheer him up and calm him down - which means there will be nothing bad in the text.

  • The more witty humor the better. A guy in his sad situation needs to laugh and smile more often.
  • Of course, it is advisable to write without obscene slang - a soldier will want to read some passages from life in civilian life to his colleagues, and he will have to stammer to remove your verbal garbage.
  • The middle of your message is all about news in civilian life, but only in positive tones. Even some minor troubles can be served with “sweet sauce” if you look at the problem from the other side.
  • Write about things that are pleasant for him - about his parents with whom you are calling, about the previous meeting that is about to approach, even if there is still a good half of his service left.
  • He doesn't need your girlish gossip - leave it for your girlfriends.

Letter to a guy in the army - how and why to write it by hand

For me, for you and for feelings. Love you…. Just! You are the best for me! And I am ready to repeat this to you at least millions of thousands of times. Won't you get tired of listening? Then - wait! Your ears will delight in many of my speeches. I will tell you something gradually, trying not to repeat myself.... I'm already starting to compose... There are carousels of thoughts in my head. I want to be as original as possible...

But it seems to me that all the words (addressed to you) were already spoken by me a long time ago. I'm writing to you…. to Army. And on the eyes sparkle like rhinestones, tears.

I just stopped the flow of mascara. It turns out that I saved the lines from black cosmetic stains... In this (clean) form, it will be more pleasant for you to leave it next to you! In your last letter I caught “sadness”. Do not be sad please. Very soon I will be close again... And they will let you go! I hope this will be for my anniversary.

A beautiful letter to your loved one in the army

I bought it especially for this purpose! It looks like there are little red roses inserted on it (on its lid). A copy of the ones you gave me! Do you remember? By the way, I want to tell you one more little secret.

I don’t throw away all those bouquets and flowers that you gave me... I dry them and put them in boxes! My brother, when he found out about this, was very surprised and laughed a lot.

One more step Today, when the Internet has practically become our second hand, we have the opportunity to exchange messages whenever we want and in any quantities. But a reverent attitude towards paper letters, so familiar to our grandmothers and parents, has not disappeared anywhere.

A letter to the army to a beloved guy, a soldier from a beloved girl

I'm waiting for you impatiently!" Why you should write letters to a friend in the army Everyone needs to remember that there are never too many real friends. That is why they should be respected and protected. And you also need to write letters to a friend in the army, which will be a real joy for him. The main thing is bright and optimistic news from your life that will cheer him up and make him laugh. Letter to my beloved guy in the army When I woke up, I really regretted that they did not stay in reality.

So I sat down to write you a letter as soon as I woke up. I didn't even have breakfast like usual! I wanted to write to you as soon as possible about what I saw in my wonderful dream.

But don’t think that this is some kind of hint! I'm not asking you to weave me a chamomile wreath. And, to be honest, I don’t know how to weave it myself. I learned to weave only from autumn leaves. Oh, how long ago it was! I put all your letters in a beautiful box.

A letter to my beloved guy in the army...

You and I have a long and happy life together, we just have to pass a few more months without you, without your strong and devoted hugs, tender kisses and sincere smile. I also live like I’m in the army, I’m waiting for demobilization. Every day I cross out another date on the calendar and count the days until your arrival.

There are now one hundred and seventy-five days left before I see you again. When you receive this letter, there will probably be about one hundred and seventy days left, and maybe less.

If I had such an opportunity, I would also go to serve in the army, just to see you every day and hear your voice. Can you imagine, I would march along with all the soldiers, how funny that would be. Strong and courageous guys step foot in foot, sing a song and I, so fragile and tender, move my legs and can barely keep up with everyone.

Collection of answers to your questions

Believe me, the young man will be very pleased to hear this from you.

  • Don't know what else to write about? Tell us about the weather. Yes Yes. Just when describing the autumn rain, do not forget to drop a couple of lines about how it reminds you that you have a similar state in your soul.

    And when talking about the first snow, remember how fun you played in the winter, or how it warmed you with its warmth on winter evenings.

  • Are you wondering how your boyfriend lives? Ask him what a military unit, company, barracks is. How are the beds there? Is it true that all soldiers have time to get dressed in 40 seconds? That is, let him tell you about his life.
  • There is meaning between the lines, Well, there are a lot of good words in the lines. Do not write any intimate details of your meetings in letters to the army.

    In many military units, messages from relatives are read.

Pay attention to the words of the famous French writer and philosopher Jean-Jacques Rousseau. Just pick up a pen and place it in front of you Blank sheet paper and try to put on paper everything that you are experiencing at this moment.

The hardest thing is to start. And, let the first letters be decorated with droplets of your tears and, after re-reading it, it will seem to you that this is not at all the same, but your boyfriend will definitely understand you. After all, the feeling of resentment from the forced separation overwhelms not only you, but also him.

Over time, it will not be so difficult for you to find words to tell how you are looking forward to the time of your meeting. Don't look for samples and templates online ready-made letters. A loving heart will tell you the right words.

What can you write about?

  • The first thing a guy who is in the military should experience is that his girlfriend is not only waiting, but is proud and admiring that he is serving.

Hello, my dear Protector! I am writing you another letter in the hope that it will warm your soul even for these short three minutes while you read it. I know that in the army the countdown of time is completely different, but you can’t argue with time. I believe with all my heart that the day will come when we will again catch up with each other, running on the green grass, relax under our nut, hugging each other tightly and watch wonderful sunsets by the lake together. I just believe, love and wait. This gives me the strength to smile when I don’t feel like it at all. Believe it too.

But with us everything is the same. The rain is dripping on the old roofs, but for some reason I can’t hear it at all anymore. It reminds me of that same cloudy evening and our last meeting. And winter goes towards the wind, so absurdly and carelessly. Waking up in the morning, I pray for evening to come soon.

Even though the army took you, my beloved, into a soldier not for life, but that’s exactly how long these months away from you last for me. Caravans of thoughts and mirages, but I wake up and understand that everything is the same as before - you are there, and I am here. They say there is no happiness without pain and truth without lies, but I believe my feelings and miss you very much. I try to be wise and enter into duels with myself: “I want” versus “I can’t,” “I want” versus “tolerate.” Well, you know how a person feels when someone he can’t live without is completely unavailable. And in the end, I am left alone with my confused thoughts, and in my head the same thing is constantly pounding: “I miss you!” You can’t stop your heart from being sad, and why? You know, I think that when seeing off a loved one to the army, not only he, but also the girl becomes a soldier. While the soldier becomes the true defender of his homeland, the girl becomes the protector of their mutual feelings. This test of courage is one for two, which we will also pass.

And yet, pride plays in me for you, for us, for the country. The army is a school of life for a soldier, and my beloved copes well with all its tasks and difficulties. I believe in you, and you in my faith. I waited, I wait and I will wait. And one day, waking up in the morning, we will realize that spring has finally arrived on our street. I really want this separation to be the only and longest separation in our lives.

Every cloud has a silver lining and that's wonderful. I know that very soon you will be here with me. I love you for who you are, wherever you are! Strange. how little is needed for happiness!

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Letter to the army. How to write to your favorite soldier

The soldier's lot is hard. However, so that the guys in the unit don’t get bored, their girlfriends and just good friends write letters to the soldiers.

If you don’t know how to write to a guy in the army, you can fix this by reading a sample letter to the army.

Remind me of your feelings

So that your friend or beloved guy does not get bored in the army, try to write in a letter not only and not so much about your feelings. Of course, you can also write about them, especially if you are writing a love letter to your soldier. First, you should say hello and remind the guy that you love him very much. that you miss you and are looking forward to meeting you. because this is the most important thing. This concludes the welcome part.

Write to your boyfriend about everything

Next comes the main part, which contains some narration. Let this be a story about what new happened in your family during the guy’s absence, what his friends tell him, how your yard or neighborhood has changed. Or maybe a new shopping center opened in the city while your loved one is on duty? Write about it, hint that you definitely want to go there together. If a new PK&O was put into operation during this time, be sure to say that you will need to take a walk there together as soon as possible. And so on.

Are you finishing your letter? Write about your feelings again

So, the letter ends, everything new has already been told, including your plans. All that remains is to finish the message correctly. If you are writing to your boyfriend, again, write about how much you love him and how much you miss him. Just don’t copy the welcome part of the letter, it’s better to use your imagination. Be sure to assure the guy that you will write to him again very soon. And try to write more often. You can place at the end of the letter a love poem invented by you personally or by your acquaintances/friends. If this option is unacceptable for you, then take a couple of lines about love from a poem by some famous poet, for example, Pushkin, Lermontov, Nekrasov and others. Unforgettable classics are always in fashion, especially when it comes to expressing love.

If the recipient is just your good friend, you can put on paper your memories of your joint tricks, about how interesting it was for you together. Let your friend also remember the brightest moments of your friendship. And then you can say goodbye - not for long, of course, until the moment when you again want to write to the guy in the army.

Another important nuance is the formatting of the letter.

Writing a letter is not everything. If you want your boyfriend to get not just great, but great pleasure from reading your letter, you can perfume the piece of paper with the message with your perfume, which he is crazy about. You can leave a kiss on the paper, putting on your lips with lipstick, the color of which he likes so much. Another option is to put a swan, dove or some other figure folded using the origami technique in the envelope along with the letter. In general, everything here is limited solely by your imagination.

Many guys, coming from the army, become completely different people. And some change a lot, sometimes so much that they start a new life. If you are left “overboard”, do not torment yourself under any circumstances - you are not to blame for anything. In this case, register on the dating site Teamo.ru. This will give you the opportunity to find a person who truly loves you, about whom you will already know a lot, even before you have seen it with your own eyes.

Letter to a loved one in the army

Comments: 132

Hello, my darling! How are you without me? I miss you so much! Very is not the right word, I’m just dying without you! I wish I knew how much I need you now! I really want to come to you! Every day I feel that no one needs me except you, no one is interested in my affairs, my mood! I’ve been thinking about you all day, now I sat down and decided to write my third letter to you today, a letter for you, my dear! I know I have to hold on, I have to swim! You and I will definitely swim, I’m sure for myself, and for you too. And it seems there are no problems, but this separation will soon finish me off! I want to fall asleep and wake up in a year in your arms, when you are near, when you are near! I really want to see you at least for a moment, it pains me to realize that this is impossible for me now. I love you and am ready to do anything for you, I ask you only one thing - never leave me! You are the most precious thing I have! I have never found such a close and dear person. My dear, I have never loved as much as I love you. Tell me, are you only mine? And will you forever remain only mine? I love you! I miss you. I want to hug you tightly, so that I can feel you and your love, so that I know you will never leave me or betray me, so that I can believe in real, eternal, holy LOVE! You can’t imagine how much I want to talk to you now how I miss you. How hard it is for me without you! (This letter will never be able to convey my emotions. How I want to hug you tighter than all the previous hugs combined! I want to bury myself in your hair and inhale their aroma and the aroma of your body, I want to kiss you without asking where and how, I want everyone to leave us in peace and quiet, alone with each other for at least a month. I’m waiting for you, I miss you very much, I hug you forever!

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Comments on the letter "Letter to a loved one in the army"

Loneliness

Inna, it’s so wonderful to love and be loved, even at a distance, hundreds of thousands of kilometers away, I don’t hate them, I’m also waiting for a guy from the army, imagine how in a year you will take his hand, and nothing will separate YOU, but this pride, it will overwhelm you, and these feelings that YOU are experiencing right now are wonderful, WAIT AND LOVE EACH OTHER, THEY DESERVE IT.

Zhanna

I liked the letter) I also spent mine a month ago, there are only 11 months left or 11 more months. waiting for your loved one is wonderful) when he is far away I understand even more that I love him and that I will definitely wait) he and I have been together for 5 years and 3 months) he is 22 and I am 18) I love my Andryusik)))***

Nuska

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faith

I haven’t had any sweets with me for 3 months now. They sent him to serve for three days by train from my city. I know it's far away. We love each other very much, although we only met for 3 months before the army. I saw him for the first time and realized this was my destiny and love for life. but the opportunity arose that I could go to his unit in April. You girls can’t imagine what’s overwhelming me right now. when I just kiss and tell him that I love only him. girls love their guys who serve. there is no need to dynamite them and extinguish them. they really need the girl's affection. although it’s been like this on the phone for a year. It’s a very pleasant feeling when you’re waiting for a guy and you know that he loves you very much too. and you’re wondering what it will be like at the station when you meet him. Antosha beloved. Expensive. My dear. I love you very much.

Dashulya

great letter. I, too, recently saw off my beloved...there are 309 days left to wait. I really only dream of one thing. snuggle up to him! wait girls! because they really need us there!

Christina

If you love, you will definitely wait for your loved one. It’s happiness to wait and love!

I've been waiting for my dear one for 6 months. I love him very much and I believe that we will be together)))))))

Dinara!

excellent letter. I'm also waiting for my boyfriend from the army! for almost 5 months now. They said that over time it would be easier and simpler - this is not so. very hard!! yes, love is worth the wait. but then there will be a lot of kisses and hugs. which are so lacking!! we are waiting.

Anastasia!!

excellent letter. Yes, it’s very hard to wait for your loved one from the army. After all, I really want to be with him always. My happiness will return to me in 12 days. But this is even more painful than waiting a year!! Girls, wait for your loved ones. ring, I love you very much.

Lesya

I liked the cool letter))))))) I’ve been seeing off my little soldier for 11 months now. 1 month left I can’t even believe that we will soon be together because we have been together for 10 years, one might say from the cradle)))))) girls, wait and be loved))))

Lena

Lena

cool letter))) I spent mine a day ago, there are still 365 days left (how bad it is without him.

Catherine

The letter is simply super! My beloved boy left for service on May 23, 2011. I just can’t live without it! It takes 4 days to travel from my city to it. Now I understand love at a distance. how hard it is to go through this.

Caroline

The letter is great. And my beloved left to serve on May 25, 2011. Far, far from my city, I traveled by train for 6 days. I love my soldier madly, I can’t live without him. I cry for days and nights, I can’t eat, I can’t sleep, I can’t get ready to study. Only he is in my thoughts, when I close my eyes my dear is standing in front of me, smiling. I miss him a lot. Girls, wait for your favorite guys, be sure to wait.

Victoria

Innochka, very beautifully written))

My Dinarik has been gone for 3 weeks now, it’s also very difficult (but we have to hold on and wait no matter what!!

Kate

The letter is great! I, too, have been waiting for my boyfriend for 8 months and it’s very, very difficult! Girls, wait for your boyfriends because LOVE becomes stronger at a distance.

Nina

The letter is beautiful, I’m also waiting for my beloved, he only served for a month, he’s so far away from me, I miss him madly.

Julia

I just have a boyfriend in the army, I just read it and tears rolled out of my eyes; we just weren’t as far away before as we are now!

Lena

Lena

it’s so wonderful to love and be loved, I saw off my beloved on May 24th, for both of us this is a very difficult test, but we will definitely survive it because we love each other, Inna the letter is very beautiful, it’s really heartbreaking

Anya

I spent my beloved on June 14, I miss him very much. I want to fall asleep and wake up in his arms in a year.

ANYUTKA

bunny, believe me, I will wait for you, because you are the most dear beloved person for me. I LOVE YOU MAXIMKA AUTUMN AUTUMN I DO NOT NEED ANYONE EXCEPT YOU. your Anyuta))))))))))

Alina

The letter is very beautiful. I just saw off my beloved boyfriend today. very difficult at heart. I can’t understand that he is far from me. I already want to see him. I can’t go a day without him. although we met with him before the army for 2 months, but I managed to understand that this is my man forever. I love you very much, my dear, and I promise that I will wait.

Nastya

Inna is very good letter I liked it :) my bunny went into the army on June 7th. I feel so bad without him and I want to be with him for at least 5 minutes. I love him madly and will definitely wait for him.

Yulyashka

Girls, I saw off my boyfriend on May 27, 2011. Yes, I really liked the letter too. He is very far from my city, he traveled for 10 days by train =((. Only a month has passed, and it’s so hard for me, I want to see him so much. I’m waiting for you, my beloved. **

Lesya

And I spent mine 10 days ago, i.e. 06/21/2011.

It's very hard without him. They sent him to Krasnoyarsk. and this is very far from my city. I won’t even be able to go to the oath (((

I love him very, very much and am looking forward to it.

Anastasia

I also saw off my loved one on June 21st. he was sent to Chita. it's a 6-day drive from my city. (((it’s so hard without him..(((I love him very much.

Natalia

I sent my beloved one off to the army just 5 days ago (June 29), but I can no longer live without him. I could never have imagined that it would be so hard to part with a loved one. Girls, just be sure to wait, because it’s hard for us without them, and it’s twice as hard for them. I can only wish everyone patience and loyalty; we can prove to everyone that we know how to wait for our loved ones.

MARGARITA

The letter is cool, I immediately want to cry. I sent my beloved off to the army just 5 days ago on June 29, but I can no longer live without him. I could never have imagined that it would be so hard to part with a loved one.

Diana

very good words, I saw my beloved off to the army yesterday, July 4, 2011, I love him very much and I know he loves me too, wait for your loved ones because it’s so wonderful

Marina

The letter is very good. Sincerely. I burst into tears reading the letter and the girls’ comments. I sent my beloved one off to the army a week ago. It's very hard without him. It feels like half of me has been torn away. This is true. I will definitely wait for my favorite defender.

My dear, I love you madly.

Tatiana

The letter is wonderful, I cried for a very long time: (I’ve been waiting for my no one for 2 weeks already, it’s so difficult: (I don’t know what to do with myself anymore, what to do. But I will definitely wait, because Love is above all:) The letter is wonderful, I cried very much for a long time: (I’ve been waiting for my no one for 2 weeks already, it’s so difficult: (I don’t know what to do with myself anymore, what to do. But I’ll definitely wait, because Love is above all:)

Natalia

Yes girls, how I understand you now. I also saw off my boyfriend on June 14, 2011. I ended up in the army in Ulan-Ude. I’ve been without him for almost a month now, I’m already counting the days when he’ll finally come and I’ll be next to him. I love him madly, we’ve been with him for 3 years now and I’m waiting for him***

Almagul

beautifully written. And I’m counting the days until my Ruslan arrives. I love him just as much. Everyone is already tired, they think that I won’t wait, or he will leave me. But I don't listen to anyone! I have no one in the world closer than him. I don’t even love my parents as much as I love my Ruslan.

Natalia

Don't listen to anyone, if you love each other you won't trust anyone. trust me. just forget about everyone. Take care of love and be happy!

Nastya

the letter is gorgeous, it’s really a pity that I can’t write to my boyfriend, where he works the post office works poorly, letters don’t reach anyone. I sent it 15 days ago, I’m really looking forward to downloading it. And I advise if you really love each other, then you’ll definitely wait , because a year is not so much.

Elizabeth

And my sweetheart left on May 27, 2011: (I didn’t think it would be so hard. I will never allow us to be separated for such a long time. My baby serves very far away and it’s cold there. Maybe someone knows, this is the city of Tiksi. They say there in the summer the snow lies. And my dear one left on May 27, 2011: (I didn’t think it would be so hard. I will never allow us to be separated for such a long time. My baby serves very far away and it’s cold there. Maybe someone knows, this is the city of Tiksi. They say there is snow there in the summer.

tatka

I was very affected by this letter. My little one has already been using the heater for 3 months. It’s very hard to part with whole year.I love him very much)))) and I’ll wait

Nasya

I really liked this letter. I'm also waiting for my sweetheart from the army. On May 19, 2011, he was taken away. He ended up in the city of Mozhaisk, Moscow region - this is about 2000 km from my city. It's been 2 months since he served. There are only 10 months left, and we will be together again. I really look forward to this day and love my little soldier very much. Girls, if you love me, wait.

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Oksano4ka

Yes, the letter is very good (As I understand you girls very much (((What kind of feelings are these. ((I burst into tears as I read it. After all, it is so, as in the letter. I also sent my boy off to the army on July 4, 2011. It’s already passed more than 3 weeks, and I’m already incredibly bored.. I can’t find a place for myself. I love you. And I’ll definitely wait for my little soldier)) I didn’t imagine that it would be so terrible and painful.

Inna

The letter was very touching. and I just left a month ago and two days ago I went to my loved one 1500 km away)))) damn girls it hurts so much and it’s so hard (((((((((

Lucy

Hello girls. I also have a guy in my service who asks me to send him a photo, but I’m afraid they say it’s a bad omen. Please give me advice on whether to send it or not?

Inna

Of course, send Lyusya if you love each other, no sign will separate you)) he will look and rejoice, knowing that he has the most beautiful girl for him)))

Soldier's Girl

Girls, you are smart! Because we understand everything very much! As they say, until you are in one situation or another, you will never understand! But you and I have one thing in common - we are all waiting and this is such an honor for us; we are so proud that many may envy us . Today my boy has been serving for 3 months and was taken away in April! SO GIRLS JUST IMAGINE YOUR MEETING AFTER A YEAR AND I THINK MOMENTS LIKE THIS ARE WORTH LIVING! WE CAN CANDLE WE ARE STRONG GIRLS! AND TO YOUR SOLDIERS I WISH EASY SERVICE AND MORE HAPPY NEWS AND LETTERS FROM LOVED ONES))

Daria

this letter made me feel great amount tears. such touching words and I am experiencing all these moments now too

Lena

Yes, the letter is very touching! And this is how I met - we met 1.5 months ago, he said that he was serving (I didn’t believe it until I saw it in the uniform). I served in our city, we saw each other, called each other every day. and yesterday he was transferred somewhere downstairs! and I couldn’t even carry it out - I was working. I have already written a letter. I'll wait 3 months left. Today we haven’t even talked on the phone yet (his phone number is unavailable) I’m so worried. I decided everything for myself, I can wait! the most important thing is that he would appreciate it.

Paratrooper girl

The letter is wonderful. Inna, you are great. Very sincere. When I read the letter and the comments, I burst into tears too. I spent a month with my beloved soldier. I miss him madly. It's a long way to go. but I hope in a month I will be able to go see him. Vanya, my dear, I love you very much, I miss you. I'll definitely wait for you))***

Anya

Anya

Yes girls, loving from a distance is very difficult! I have known my beloved since childhood, we dated for five years, broke up due to my stupidity, we were separated for almost two years, I joined the army in May, before that we had a meeting, and suddenly it became clear that the love between us was as it was, ardent, hot, and most importantly mutual! I’m in Biysk, and he’s so far away, serving in the Moscow region in the city of Balashikha! I want to go to him, but work doesn’t allow it, my vacation is still very far away! I love my Temochka!

Anya

Yes girls, loving from a distance is very difficult! I have known my beloved since childhood, we dated for five years, broke up due to my stupidity, we were separated for almost two years, I joined the army in May, before that we had a meeting, and suddenly it became clear that the love between us was as it was, ardent, hot, and most importantly mutual! I’m in Biysk, and he’s so far away, serving in the Moscow region in the city of Balashikha! I want to go to him, but work doesn’t allow it, my vacation is still very far away! I love my Temochka!

Nina

You girls are all great guys! My boyfriend was also taken away in May 2011 to CHITA! It's just crazy how far away! Another 9 months. I will definitely wait for him, because I love him very much and I don’t need anyone but him! Girls - WAIT.

Karina

I’m also waiting for my boyfriend, he was taken away in April 2011, I miss him madly, but it’s a pleasant feeling to wait, knowing that you are loved and someone needs you. Girls, wait, don’t be afraid of distance, because nothing can destroy true love.

Karina

I’m also waiting for my boyfriend, he was taken away in April 2011, I miss him madly, in the first 3 weeks before the oath I couldn’t even eat, I kept crying, but I gradually got used to it, and now I’m normal about it, I’ve been waiting for 4 months, I’m calling him on Sundays, but it’s a pleasant feeling to wait, knowing that you are loved and someone needs you. Girls, wait, don’t be afraid of distance, because nothing can destroy true love, and feel proud, because not everyone is like you and me. Kolinka, serve, and I will wait for you, my love!

Guest

Everything is completely different with us. He was taken away on July 9. I am 7 years older than him (I’m 26, he’s 19), divorced and I have a son. I met him 4 months ago, everything got so twisted that I didn’t notice how I was left alone. After My husband is the very first person dear to me, who gave me everything: love, passion and reliability. This is a gift that fate gave me and I don’t want to lose it. My baby is the best.

Yulenka

girls, my husband also serves, we are 20 years old, and we already have a baby. And no matter what, he was sent to serve far from home. He misses me and the baby very much. Like a bell, we have constant tears, he says that he falls asleep when he remembers how Milanochka cries. It’s very sad, girls wait for your soldiers, I’m VERY proud that I’m a HUSBAND and not married. Love them, because only men make our lives more beautiful.

Ulyana

Girls, I’m also waiting for my boyfriend from the army, how we started dating him and a week later the summons to the army came, I didn’t believe it at first. When I saw him off I had such a feeling that he was leaving very far, but I still believe in him I love and I’m waiting.. Girls, let’s wait for our soldiers because it’s so important for them..

Lika

I was very touched by your letter, I feel these feelings just like you. I love my beloved very much, I really look forward to it and miss him madly! It's been two months now. we will endure everything, the most important thing is patience. I was very touched by your letter, I feel these feelings just like you. I love my beloved very much, I really look forward to it and miss him madly! It's been two months now. We will endure everything, the most important thing is patience.

Lyudmila

My boy is serving near St. Petersburg, I have to wait 3 months. I go to see him every Saturday. I can't wait for the day when we wake up next to each other. I love him so much. And I know that after this time I won’t be able to live without him. My dears. Wait. Love.

Svetlana, Nurlat RT

The letter is beautifully written. I also wrote about the same to mine. He was taken 2 months ago - another 10 and he will return. Ohh girls, you know how much I love him. How I’m waiting and how bad I feel without him. (((((((though you understand me exactly.

Varvara

My Bunny was taken on 07/02/11, he has been serving for 3 months now, time goes by so slowly, I love him very much. And I miss him very much! He is so far from me. In Khabarovsk ((((((((I’m really looking forward to our meeting Serezhenka, I love you very much and I’m looking forward to meeting you. My Bunny was taken away on 07/02/11, he’s been serving for 3 months now, time goes by so slowly, I love him very much. And I miss him very much! He’s so far away from me. In Khabarovsk. (((((((I’m really looking forward to our meeting. Serezhenka, I Love you very much and look forward to meeting you.

Irishka

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Natalia!

And my beloved one went into the army today! I still can’t come to my senses! I cried all day! I love him very much! And I’ll wait! Even though it won’t be easy! I haven’t seen him for half a day and already miss him terribly.

Yulka

Yulka

My sweet one was taken away in November, I can’t live without him anymore))) I really love him very much))) He is terribly far from me - in Khabarovsk! My dear sweetie, I love you very much and am waiting for you.)***

Tina

It’s been two weeks since I spent my loved one in the army. It's hard without him. I'm afraid that he will leave me. After all, this happens. And yet I want to wait for him.

Katyushka

4 weeks ago I saw off my loved one to the army. As I remember, those last minutes, on the platform... it became so painful and lonely.. well, it’s hard for everyone.. we love each other and we will go through this difficult path.. AND WE WILL TOGETHER=))

Kursk waiting girl.

the letter is very beautifully written. I sit and cry, remember all the moments of our life and it feels so good. In 5 days I’ll go to the oath, I’m counting the minutes until this meeting)))

well, it’s okay, and on my street there will be BEMBEL.))))

Tanya

I've been waiting for my boyfriend for 6 months) and love is really worth such suffering. girls, be more patient. Just imagine how much joy and happiness you will experience later when you see your loved one for the first time after a long separation.))

Christina

I’m also waiting for my boy, I still have half a year left to wait for nothing. Girls, it’s happiness to wait for your loved one, your love for him becomes even greater. Love and wait. And write them letters, they will be very pleased.

Lesik

I love my boy, we met for 7 months before the army, and I’ve been waiting for him for 5.5 months already, he’s moved far away from my city, he’s serving in Ukraine (((((((I know that I’ll wait and that we’ll be together. We’re even thinking about a wedding, oh children, although I myself have a daughter from my ex-husband

Yulyasha*

girls, wait for your loved ones! my boy serves in the army and we correspond by letters, he even made me a musical postcard). I wish everyone happiness*

KSENKA.ONLY HIM.

KSENKA.ONLY HIM.

girls, my dears:) I’m also waiting for my beloved from the army: (he served only 2 months. There are still 10 left. I’ll definitely wait for him. I love my Temachka very much, it’s such a happiness to wait for my beloved. And to know that when he we will always be back together... of course it’s very hard. It’s hard not to wait, but to be without him. If a person truly loves, then he will wait as long as he has to.. God, how I adore him.

KSENKA.ONLY HIM.

girls, my dears:) I’m also waiting for my beloved from the army: (he served only 2 months. There are still 10 left. I’ll definitely wait for him. I love my Temachka very much, it’s such a happiness to wait for my beloved. And to know that when he we will always be back together... of course it’s very hard. It’s hard not to wait, but to be without him. If a person truly loves, then he will wait as long as he has to.. God, how I adore him.

KSENKA.ONLY HIM.

girls, my dears:) I’m also waiting for my beloved from the army: (he served only 2 months. There are still 10 left. I’ll definitely wait for him. I love my Temachka very much, it’s such a happiness to wait for my beloved. And to know that when he we will always be back together... of course it’s very hard. It’s hard not to wait, but to be without him. If a person truly loves, then he will wait as long as he has to.. God, how I adore him.

Ksyushenka*

Yes, very beautiful touching letter..My beloved left me for the army today, and I already miss him. What will happen to me next? No one knows))

Nadenka

the letter is very touching((But nothing comes into my head. My loved one is also currently serving in the army, of course we are not dating, but I love him very, very much! I’m also thinking of writing (((Help girls, write) I I want to hint to him that I love him

Alyona

Yes, girls, it’s very difficult to wait for a guy from the army. This is a test for two! It’s very melancholy and sad, especially since we’ve been together for a long time, and then suddenly we’re separated for a whole year. Because of loneliness, even the white light is not nice. I want to close my eyes and wake up the moment he comes into the house and hugs me tightly. wait, since you promised to wait! and I promised to wait!) How nice it is that I’m not the only one!

Masha)

Yes, girls, I understand you, in general it’s so shitty: (well, nothing, this is a test for us, we must be stronger, and wait, assure our loved one that we love him, we miss him, good luck to you:) everything will be great!

Lyuba

And I’m waiting for my brother from the army))) there are already 112 days left)) I’ll meet him soon. I wish it was soon! It’s just coming for my birthday, it will be the best gift))))

julia

and my beloved will return in 120 days. I love him very much. and I'm looking forward to it. Girls, be sure to wait for your guys.

Inna

wonderful letter! my dear one also left for 11 months, it’s very hard for me without him, it’s been 4 months since we’ve been apart. (((I cross out every day spent apart from him on the calendar, and one thing calms me down is that every day our meeting is getting closer! Appreciate, love and respect your loved ones!

Alena Andreeva

The letter is wonderful, 2 years ago I saw off my friend far away, to the army. Oh, how difficult it was without him: (I thought I couldn’t wait, I endured, I waited, I loved, and I still love him, because he is the most beloved, dear person to me, right now I’m parting with him for 2 months, he goes to work in St. Petersburg, it’s so bad when he’s not around, Girls, love your boys, wait, because we can’t live without them :)

Dasha

Nice, kind, letter)) you are smart. I’m also waiting for my beloved, less than two months left. it's painful. It may be strange, but I still can’t believe that he’s not next to me. like before. I hear him on the phone and cry quietly so as not to upset him. It doesn't work any other way. I know that I am strong. that I can. everyone who is waiting knows this. I unbearably want to love him next to me. not at a distance. wait if you promised. don't betray.

Tanyusha

Hello everyone!! I’m also waiting for a guy from the army.. I’m counting the days spent without him.. I miss him so much, everything around reminds me of those happy minutes spent together!! But I know.. that I’ll wait, because I love him very much !!Wait, girls, for your loved ones!! Yes, it’s hard.. but it’s doubly hard for them there without us!! Love, appreciate!! And fate will thank you for your patience

)))

yes Inna, very cool letter! So my boyfriend was drafted into the army, 6 months left. but it turns out you get used to everything for the sake of the person you love. If we love you, we’ll wait. Every morning I wake up waiting for him to call ((((I recently went to see him, it was wonderful. Hang in there, we’ll endure it,

Victoria

the letter is very cool, my boyfriend will soon leave for the army, my soul is already somehow sad, I can imagine how I will be without him for a whole year, without kisses, affection

Faith

Left 4 days ago. my soul is like a stone. It’s hard without my sun, especially falling asleep, tears are choking (((I love you madly. I miss you. I’ll wait.

Anastasia

Really cool letter) I still have to wait 349 days(

Alenka

The letter is really very good, it expresses all the emotions I understand you very much girls, I spent mine 22 days ago, I love my Vanya very much!

Natalia

Eh, I saw my boy off yesterday((

it's very hard. but I will wait for him, always. He called me today and I felt such peace in my soul. simply cannot be expressed in words. I couldn’t sleep at night and got up very early in the morning. June 25th will be a year since we met. how many quarrels we had with him, how many insults. but all this is forgotten. Only the best remains in your memory when you see his eyes when he just got on the train. time will fly by quickly. so wait, girls, because then you will have such a feeling of pride in your boy that he protected and guarded your peace.)

Natasha

I saw mine off today, I really, really want to see him. I can’t imagine it’s another year. And I also understand that it’s bad for him, he’s very bored. The most important thing is that it’s good with him. I love my little soldier and I’m waiting, waiting and missing him.

))))

Girls, wait for the guys, this is the most important thing for us, and don’t write sad letters, distance will always show who loved and waited and who didn’t care. The most important thing is wait.

Oleska

Hello everyone, I just saw mine off today. I have 365 days of separation and agony ahead of me. How bad it is without my loved one, I’ve been crying for 3 days now. He just became a roaring cow))) It was very hard to let him go today. Everything inside is torn to shreds. I can’t imagine how to live this year without him. I love him very much, I miss him and wait for him.

Natasha

I also can’t imagine how I’ll be without him for a whole year)) it’s very difficult, especially when you start to think that it’s been a whole year. Maybe I'll see him tomorrow. We didn’t even have time to say goodbye)) I miss him and so does he..

Aygulyaka***

oh girlsiiiiii. as I understand you))) I also saw off mine, but only 43 days of his service have passed (((this suffering and torment is still ahead, it’s okay, we’ll definitely wait, because we love them and they are our real men, because they serve *** Gaziz My sun, I love you very much and miss you very much (((

Anastasia

What painfully familiar phrases I read in this letter, I’m also waiting, even if it’s only two more months, but I believe in my strength, I believe in myself. I will definitely wait, no matter how hard it is for me! I watch a video about how girls wait for guys and how they greet them. God this is so cute, I wish this happened to me too! They move you to tears! We've been together for a year and a half already, 2.5 will come))) I love you and am truly waiting for you, my Andryushenka))

Sabina

Great letter. I've been waiting for my boyfriend from the army for almost 6 months. We write letters with his mother and send him photos of us together. We love him very much, miss him and are waiting for him. =******

Elizabeth

A very touching letter) I’m waiting for my beloved, a month has already passed! I am happy that I have to wait 11) I am impatiently waiting for my kitten and I love him very much) Wait and love, girls))) There are many of us, together we will endure))))))))

Aigul

A very beautiful and touching letter. My boyfriend will also be taken away soon, I can’t imagine how I’ll live without him. He’s still with me, but it feels like he’s already far away from me. I will also write letters and wait. I will try to write as beautifully as you.

Sabinka

Zhenya

A very touching letter. I miss him very much, this distance is killing me, there are still five months (150 days) and the whole winter ahead. Wait for the girls, they will definitely come and hug you)))

Nasya

I also spent time there, he’s been gone for like 10 days. I really miss. When he calls me, I get a shiver throughout my body. It’s so nice to hear his voice, it feels like he’s nearby: * Even though we only had a month before leaving, I’ll wait, no matter what it costs me.

Albinka

My sweetie has been serving for 153 days already. We love each other, but not together. oh if it weren’t for this army.

I didn’t promise to wait, but I will wait, I only need him! he will definitely come back and appreciate such an act, he promised to marry because I don’t smoke, and now he’s getting married even more so)))

Dashulya

Girls, wait for your men from the army! Yes, it’s difficult, yes it’s hard. and you know, honestly, I’m learning to somehow live without him, I’ve begun to get used to loneliness... but one call from him and everything inside is torn, either from pain, or from the fact that I miss, or from the joy of hearing my own voice. .Don't know. but I really want him next to me... I love him very much. And he knows it.

Tatyana Veliky Novgorod

artemka v.ch.30616-22 island-3, I love you so much and look forward to our meeting. After all, there are only 360 days left. I want to hug you, put my head on your shoulder and not let you go! It’s a pity that we didn’t have time to sign. Well nothing. If you come, I will definitely become your wife, and now I will faithfully wait for you. I love my artemka very much

Lyubanka

Come on girls, you can do it. In 9 days it will be like two months when my Alexey Viktorovich left.

I love him madly! May God protect your boys and mine.

Anyuta

Anyuta

beautiful letter:) I’m also waiting for my beloved boy, he left on June 19, 2012. On January 19th it will be 7 months since he served! I’ve never gone to see him except for the oath and that’s it :) well, now at New Year he was released for 2 weeks on the 3rd of the year the new year was already a success and most importantly I was with him :)

Elena

cool letter. I’ll probably cry now, because I miss my beloved. he is now in the army. wait another 11 months(((((((he constantly writes to me: - Most importantly, wait for me, I have a trembling in my heart, how can I not wait for him, because I love him more than life itself.

Elena

my beloved wrote to me: - Only here I fully understood how dear you are to me. I want you to be my wife.))))))

Alyonochka

Reading the letter and comments, I began to miss my bunny even more. It’s hard to wait, especially since we also lost our baby on December 28, 2012 at 9 weeks. it's very, very hard. We already met a year ago. but then he left. A year has passed and we have been together again for 5 months. he realized that there was no one more valuable than me. it is so sweet. which even drives me crazy, and he left on November 28, 2012. I really miss my kitten. *:*:*

Elizabeth

My love will be near you very soon. There are still 103 days left to wait. Time has flown by. As they say, the day is long. and life is short. do not miss your love despite the distance and pain.

Mignonette

Cool letter))) I’m also waiting for my beloved boy, he left on June 29, 2012. There are still 3 months left))) I promise I’ll wait and we’ll be together*))) I love you *))) And I miss you very much*)))

Madina

Madina

And I spent my boy on 10/26/12. 155 days have already passed and 210 remain: (I love Askerchik madly, I’m waiting and waiting. He is so far from me. In Nizhny Novgorod and I’m in Nalchik CBD. I will never forget the day when I saw him off ((

Experienced

Naive girls)))

I'm so sorry for you, but at least half of you will not be needed by your ex-boyfriends immediately upon their return from service. The rest will most likely also be rejected (not all of them, of course), because... guys will need adventures to satisfy their natural libido. It is instinct that will drive them. the same one that is now moving you

Lena

Inna this is a very good letter and the main thing is to wait and never forget it, if you love him very much then you will wait for him

Vika

And I only left two days ago, but it feels like I haven’t seen him for an eternity. Thank you for the sample letter, I really liked it.

Anyutka

My beloved passed away on May 19, 2013: (I love him very much and am really looking forward to it:) My beloved soldier:) my Ruslana ik:*

Lenochka)

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Alya

Girls, we are strong and we will definitely wait))) I have 258 days left to wait for my beloved)) Every day I love more and more. I hope it was so for everyone that before the army we often quarreled with our loved ones and said words that hurt, did not appreciate ours relationship. Now my beloved is telling me how he realized what a fool he was for spending so little time with me and how he sometimes hurt me. I also realized a lot that I was wrong in many ways, and love just flared up even stronger. Girls, wait and love your soldiers, only real men come from there. P.S - my beloved and I have been together for 3 years) I’m 16 and he’s 20 =)

Katyushechka

Hi girls!

I saw off my beloved not so long ago, just three days ago, the first two days were generally difficult, now it’s a little easier, only at night he finds it. We've been together for 7 months, we just barely notice anyone except each other, we remain faithful to each other, I I can’t cheat on him, I think it’s a total betrayal and it’s disgusting for me! I dream of hugging him, I’m very worried, because I know it’s not easy for him there. I still have to wait 360 days, our meeting seems simply unreal. But he and I went through everything together, and we made promises that we would get through everything. I really want to wait for him and I believe that I will!

I wish you all good luck, don’t be discouraged, everything will definitely be fine :) Patience for us girls and patience again!

Ulyana

I spent my beloved one on November 17, 2013. I still have 363 days left to wait (((it’s very hard without him, because he was everything to me and remains to this day. I’ll wait for you, dear. And I can’t think about him for a second. Before my eyes is the moment he leaves (Mishka I I’ll definitely wait for you! After all, we’ve been together for the second year. Come and celebrate the month with you!

Ulyana

Anya, I completely agree with you! We had such a situation that right before the army we broke up for 3 months, although we had been together for 10 months, I was dating someone else, but I spent more time with Misha than with the guy, because I loved him but didn’t realize it, he went into the army and I realized how much I needed him, I broke up with my boyfriend and Misha and I resumed our relationship and agreed to forget these 3 months like a bad dream. now I'm waiting for him. it’s painful (but we’ll cope, we’ve been through a lot and will get through it, he’ll return from the army, and we’ll already be 2 years old =*** I love this little man very much, he’s the dearest to me, except for him I’ve never met anyone like him. I love my little soldier=*********

Milanna

Girls, how I understand you all. I sent my beloved into the army exactly half a year ago. There are still 6 months left and we will be close. Every day without him is an eternity. Before the army, we dated for exactly a year and he was taken away. Now I'm in 11th grade. He should return just in time to mine prom) eh..when. I really want to go to him. Time kills. But it’s okay, half the way is over) I wish everyone to wait for their heroes!)

Nina

These letters are very good but sad and thanks to these letters I waited for my boyfriend and we are now in the place

Julia

I really liked the letter, I immediately remember how I wrote letters to mine. It seems like it was yesterday, but 8 months have already passed since his arrival, how wonderful it is to wait for a guy from the army, but it’s very difficult. Some say that it won’t be long, but you try wait and see how easy it is. At first it was very hard to wait, but over time it gets easier, but not by much)) girls, don’t leave the guys who are in the army, love and be loved))

Ramilya*

Clear writing, no words)365. for some it’s just an insignificant number. but the one who waits takes away -1 from her every day and this brings incredible happiness. and not everyone will understand how hard it is to see off a train,

who takes away your happiness(((Kuyanchik, I love you madly and I’m waiting for you, my boy*

Guest

Heh(* I didn’t even say goodbye to my boy((

I got a sore throat, I felt bad in the fall. My beloved came to Stone and said, My little kitten, how are you doing?!

valentine

Jamila

I spent mine 6 months ago, and these 6 months passed quickly, he writes a lot, calls every day, loves him very much. He serves in Moscow. He wants to sign a contract, but he doesn’t do it for my sake))

How to write a letter to your loved one in the army?

The only thread connecting a guy in the army with his home and his beloved girl is letters: a letter to a loved one in the army should be very warm, positive, it can convey the feeling that he is very welcome at home.

Every young man must serve in the army. Only in this case will he deserve the title of a real man. Of course, situations are different, for example, someone is prevented from joining the army by health conditions or family problems. No one is immune from anything.

However, now there are more and more young guys who want to skip the service for no reason. It’s embarrassing to listen to stories when young men vying with each other boast to each other that their parents got them out of the army. Moreover, they not only do not understand the seriousness of this act, but are even proud of it. Oh times, oh morals! Yes, this one famous phrase always relevant.

Military service is the duty of every self-respecting young man to the Fatherland. It doesn’t matter that our state is now collapsing, and the government is filled with only “fatty people,” we need to be able to separate the concepts of “Motherland” and “state.” How can one live without a sense of patriotism in these times? This is probably the only thing that remains in the hearts of the Russian people in relation to modern Russia.

Well, yes, okay, let’s not delve into politics, because today we are talking about how to correctly write a letter to your loved one in the army. It seems very easy to do, but once you sit down at the table, take a piece of paper, a pen and..., everything will not be as simple as it seemed at first glance.

Of course, you want to put all your feelings and emotions into the message, but you also need to follow some rules and writing algorithm.

Let's talk about this in more detail.

What not to write

Before you begin your message, you must keep in mind that not everything can be stated in it.

The command knows very well how such news will affect the soldier’s morale, so they will not give him the letter.

Don't write about something very personal and intimate. Keep in mind that your letter will be re-read to your colleagues several times, so it is not at all necessary that the entire platoon knows your secrets.

And one more thing, perhaps the most important thing, don’t even think about writing. that you fell in love with someone else and want to leave.

If it reaches the fighter, then imagine how he will react to it? All his thoughts in the army are about his family and about you, i.e. about those people whom he loves and is sure that they love him. Have pity on the guy, even if you fall out of love. Leave all the clarification of the relationship until he returns home, and there, on the spot, you’ll sort it out.

Keep in mind that a letter to a loved one in the army is not written in a hurry, for example, at a lecture at the institute or on a minibus on your lap. To do this you will need to create a romantic atmosphere.

Imagine that you are waiting for your loved one to visit. Create an environment suitable for this event at home: light candles (by the way, be sure to write in the evening, since it is easiest to tune into the right mood at this time of day), turn on slow music (preferably without words), which reminds you of your lover (perhaps you once danced to it). Remove everything unnecessary from the table so that nothing distracts your thoughts from the love message.

Leave only a piece of paper and a pen. Remember, a soldier will run around with your letter like a chicken and an egg and brag about it to all his colleagues, so take care of its design.

To write, you can use beautiful ink or choose not banal white paper, but some pleasant shade (fortunately, you can now find anything in the store).

Try to be alone in the room. If the square meters of your apartment do not allow for privacy, then wait until no one is home or send your parents to the cinema in the evening and your little sister to grandma. Say that you have something very important to do today. Now that you are left alone, think about your loved one, about how you miss him. Remember the most exciting moments of your life. Your future letter should be imbued with sincerity and love.

It would be most appropriate to start the letter with a greeting and questions about the soldier’s well-being and mood. In the following sentences, be sure to talk about your feelings, i.e. How are you waiting for your loved one to return from the army? Insert the key phrase more often: “I love you!”

Tell your boyfriend simply and naturally all the latest news, as if you were sitting next to him and talking. There is no need to invent a special style for writing; it is best to let it be conversational. It’s not worth mentioning, for example, that there are a lot of fans following you, etc. With this news you will only upset the soldier and give him a reason for unnecessary worries that will interfere with his service.

Tell us better about where you are Lately he walked, what he did, what interesting things happened in the family, what news was in the yard, how his friends are doing and what they tell him, how the city has changed (perhaps a new amusement park has opened, etc.).

Be sure to write. How sorry you are that he couldn’t go with her to where you were (for example, to the cinema or theater).

You can tell how you have changed, for example, you got a fashionable haircut, bought beautiful shoes. Let your loved one imagine what you have become and dream about you. Be sure to mention that everyone loves him very much and is waiting for his return.

At the end of the letter, write again about your feelings, about how you miss his tender hugs and hot kisses. Create a certain atmosphere of mystery and mystery, hint that you have prepared a surprise for his return. which he will definitely like. By doing this, you will force the soldier to constantly think about you and the upcoming meeting.

Often the army becomes the first serious test of feelings for young people. Not everyone can handle separation. But, according to the French writer Simone de Beauvoir, if love is strong enough, then waiting becomes happiness. This, first of all, concerns the soldier’s girlfriend, who lives for the future meeting.

Are you overcome by the feeling that a separation of 1.5 - 2 years will drag on forever and never end? Believe me, you won't be so lonely if you start sending letters to your young soldier. But this needs to be done correctly, so that, having read your news, he knows: he has somewhere and someone to return to, and does not think that his stay in the service makes someone unhappy. No matter how sad you are, try to write the lines in such a way that they will cheer up your boyfriend, and he will look forward to your meeting, and not curse his days of service.

To write a wonderful love letter,
you just need to start writing without knowing what you want to say,
and finish without knowing what they wrote about...
J.-J. Rousseau

Have you never written a letter before? Believe me, it's not scary. Pay attention to the words of the famous French writer and philosopher Jean-Jacques Rousseau. Just pick up a pen, put a blank sheet of paper in front of you and try to put on paper everything that you are experiencing at this moment. The hardest thing is to start. And, let the first letters be decorated with droplets of your tears and, after re-reading it, it will seem to you that this is not at all the same, but your boyfriend will definitely understand you. After all, the feeling of resentment from the forced separation overwhelms not only you, but also him. Over time, it will not be so difficult for you to find words to tell how you are looking forward to the time of your meeting. Don't look There are samples and templates of ready-made letters online. A loving heart will tell you the right words. What can you write about?

  • The first thing a guy who is in the army should experience is that his girlfriend is not only waiting, but proud and admires what it serves. Write that it’s very difficult for you, but at the same time it’s nice to feel like the one who is waiting for your loved one from the army. Tell us how jealous your friends are that you are so brave and have not shied away from your duty, as many do now.
  • There is no need to tell you that some friend of yours, whose boyfriend is also in the army, goes to discos and parties, but you don’t do this, because you are waiting for him faithfully and devotedly at home. Just say that you don’t want this now, that you’re not interested in going somewhere without him. And here time will pass, you will come and we will...(then start talking about how you imagine the meeting and the first walk)
  • Be sure to try to keep in touch with his family. Call, and if you know his mother well, drop by for a cup of tea. Believe me, the young man will be very pleased to hear this from you.
  • Don't know what else to write about? Tell us about the weather. Yes Yes. Just when describing the autumn rain, do not forget to drop a couple of lines about how it reminds you that you have a similar state in your soul. And when talking about the first snow, remember how fun you played in the winter, or how it warmed you with its warmth on winter evenings.
  • Are you wondering how your boyfriend lives? Ask him what a military unit, company, barracks is. How are the beds there? Is it true that all soldiers have time to get dressed in 40 seconds? That is, let him tell you about his life.

Between the lines - the meaning,
Well, there are a lot of good words in the lines

Do not write in letters to the army some intimate details your meetings. In many military units, messages from relatives are read. Also, you should not reproach him for the fact that he communicates little with you and does not answer letters. The main thing is that you keep in touch with him. Let it be his rare messages or 10-minute phone conversation, but you know that he loves you.

A guy will be very pleased to pick up a letter that will show at first glance that it was sent by his beloved girl. Take a few extra minutes and decorate the message once drawn with hearts, and next time let it be funny stickers. Perhaps these will be funny pictures of guys in uniform, and under them write funny captions that can be taken from the Internet. We also recommend spray the letter with your perfume. Believe me, the light aroma will remain. And definitely kiss in the form of traces of your lips.

Military service is a challenging step that will test the strength of your relationship. You must support each other and wait. And he will find out that you are always ready to be with him when he receives the long-awaited envelope in which a piece of your love is hidden. After all, according to Liz Carpenter, people have lost so much by stopping writing letters. After all, a telephone conversation cannot be re-read over and over again.

Yulia Spiridonova especially for

Every girl, being separated from her loved one, misses him. Thoughts and worries about how he is doing and whether everything is fine with him simply cannot leave my head. Separation is a difficult test for two loving hearts. The reasons for a long separation can be varied, unforeseen circumstances, work trips, departures for family matters, but most often the army gets in the way of lovers.

It would seem that what could be simpler than writing a letter to a guy in the army? But as soon as it comes to actual writing, girls begin to get lost and don’t know where to start, how best to express their feelings and what can or cannot be written about. If this sounds like you, then you just need to read this article on how to write a letter to the army, and everything will become simple and clear.

How to write a letter to the army?

The army is a lot of excitement and anxiety for the conscript himself, so when he finds himself in a completely unusual “military” situation, the guy needs to know that you support him regardless of separation and distance. Finding the right words to support a loved one is never easy.

In order for your friend or boyfriend to receive your letter, you should know certain features of writing letters to the army.

What should you not write?

  1. Letters with bad news about the death of relatives or about a break in relations with a soldier may simply not reach him, since in the army all letters are re-read beforehand. This is necessary in order to protect soldiers from emotional breakdowns, which, combined with the ability to access military weapons, can lead to disastrous consequences.
  2. In a letter, you should also not reproach your loved one for anything, because his emotional state is now very unstable and he can take everything he reads very close to his heart.

What should you write in the letter?

Don't neglect letters. Of course, you can call your boyfriend, but believe me, a telephone conversation will never compare to a letter written in your hand that he will treasure forever. Writing letters to a loved one during separation brings two lovers very close, since at a distance they have time to think about their mistakes. Apart loving hearts understand the reasons for all previous quarrels, and find answers to many of their questions about relationships, which helps make them even better.