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Lecture hall “Let's talk about politeness” Museum “History of the Development of Moscow Culture” State Educational Institution Secondary School with in-depth study of the English language No. 1371 CJSC Moscow Head: Kuzyakova G.V.Slide 2
Class topics: “Who invented etiquette?” “Do we know how to say hello?” “How to give and receive gifts” “And the curtain rises and makes noise” “Telephone etiquette” “We are going to visit” “Does a person need to be beautiful?” “They greet you by their clothes...” “Yes, a first and last name is not a piece of cake.”
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“DO WE KNOW HELLO?” “Hello!” - how easily and habitually we pronounce this phrase, and just as easily we answer it. But what would be our surprise if we were greeted with the words: “Have you eaten today?” or “Are your livestock healthy?” But these are precisely the phrases that were exchanged between the inhabitants of Ancient China, Mongolia, and Egypt who met each other. . . What kind of greetings do people use! Firework! Ciao! Salaam Aleikum! How do I do!..” This is how the lecturer of the school museum “History of the Development of Moscow Culture”, a member of the Museum Council, 8th grade student Anna Filimonenko, begins her lesson with second graders. Special cards have been prepared for classes that illustrate the story and make it more interesting and colorful.
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With the words “I see you!” exchanged when the Zulus met. And a tribe of other African inhabitants invented greetings for all occasions:
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There are greetings for sitting, standing, lying, happy and unhappy, etc. Can you imagine what it was like for the little Africans while they learned all this? And you can’t mix it up. This has long been considered bad manners
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Greeting business people This is how they greet relatives This is how friends greet each other This is how a man greets a lady
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Sonotrians and Ekimos greet with their noses HOW THE BRITISH SAY HEALTH Familiarity with different greetings arouses keen interest among the children. Then the lecturer invites the students to break into pairs and come up with their own greetings to each other. The guys' imagination knows no bounds
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Situational task 1 One boy complained that “these greetings” were nothing but trouble. “I,” he says, “will soon become nervous from them. On the street I just turn my head so as not to miss someone I know. As soon as I see you, “Hello!” I shout. And they also reprimand me: “How uncultured you are, Kesha, it’s just terrible!” Do you know how he greeted?... Kesha is running down the alley: hands in his pockets, cap pulled down over his eyes, collar raised, feet kicking a tin can. The school nurse is coming towards you. As he walked, he cheerfully shouted either “give” or “screw” and rushed on. And she just threw up her hands and sighed heavily: “They teach them and teach them, but it’s of little use.” Question: What did Kesha do wrong? Question: Who greets first if the youngest and the oldest meet? Boy and girl? Who gives their hand first?
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Situational task 2 You are walking down the street with a friend. He greeted a person you didn’t know and paused. Should I say hello to you? Answer: Yes. It’s also a must to greet people you often meet (a salesperson in a bakery, a resident from a neighboring building, a teacher who teaches in other classes), even if you don’t know them. Situational task 3 You entered the bus and saw that your friends were standing at the end of the bus. Should I say hello to them? If necessary, how? Answer: If you see friends on the bus, in the library, on the other side of the street, then you should greet them, provided that they noticed you. Of course, there is no point in shouting. Words are replaced with gestures, a smile, a bow.
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During the lesson, the children receive tasks on cards where they need to insert the missing greeting words
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What is politeness? Synonyms Antonyms Nonverbal politeness Verbal politeness Politeness in intercultural communication Literature Internet 2 04/20/2010
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What is politeness?
What a nice girl you have: she always says hello. Our neighbor is a good person, he always politely says thank you even for a small service. What an unpleasant person: you tell everyone. A good, respectful woman: she doesn’t forget to congratulate me on the holidays. 04/20/2010 3
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Politeness is a moral quality of a person for whom respect for people is an everyday norm of behavior and a habitual way of treating others. Dictionary of Ethics, 1975 concept of moral verbal - non-verbal politeness 04/20/2010 4
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Synonyms
courtesy, courtesy, correctness, respect, attentiveness, courtesy good manners: “You must be polite!” gallantry: to a woman A lady of respectable age addresses a famous journalist: “Could you give an autograph to an elderly woman?” - Please, but where is she? 04/20/2010 5
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Antonyms
impoliteness, rudeness, rudeness - It’s so quiet here today. There are usually so many people here. - Oh yes, madam! But look outside! What fool would want to leave the house in this weather? The lady, jokingly, asked the young man if he would be at her funeral. – “Without a doubt, madam, with the greatest pleasure!” 04/20/2010 6
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Nonverbal politeness
Precision is the politeness of kings! Whether it is the Queen of England, the Chinese Prime Minister or the Spanish King, Vladimir Putin will make himself welcome, both abroad and at home. http://www.inosmi.ru/inrussia/20090803/251262.html 04/20/2010 7 Abb. 1
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Verbal politeness
Clichéd greeting formulas: Hello; Good afternoon; Hello. expressions accompanying the greeting: How are you?; How's your health? gratitude: Thank you; I'm really grateful to you; Cordially; I thank you from the bottom of my heart. 04/20/2010 8
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refusal: I'm sorry, but...; I would love to... but I can't. congratulation: I congratulate you on...; Happy New Year!; Happy holiday! dating: Allow me to introduce myself!; Let's get acquainted! table manners: Bon appetit!; Cheers! 04/20/2010 9
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Please allow me to get off. - They get off the trolleybus without permission. Please, give me the money for the ticket! - Come on, stop being polite. 04/20/2010 10
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Degree of politeness Good afternoon - Hello Goodbye - Bye Sorry - Excuse me; Verzeihung - Entschuldigung voice timbre place of conversation 04/20/2010 11
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Grammatical ways personal pronoun: you/you; he/she; “we are joint” diminutive form Three tickets for six thirty in the middle, please! Hello, girl, telephone number of the hardware store on Yakornaya in Biryulego. 04/20/2010 12
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imperative + please Please remove your car! Please open your bag! Please write down your answers! imperative Be kind... Do yourself a favor... I ask you to do it! 04/20/2010 13
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particle I would like to thank you! I would like to apologize to you! I would like to invite you! 04/20/2010 14
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Lexical modes verb want I want (I want), I would like (I would like) to forgive you for doing this! verb can You (not) can, You (not) could move? address: first name – patronymic – last name 04/20/2010 15
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explicit politeness expression in clichéd formulas norm implicit politeness Based on the free choice of linguistic means and implemented optionally. individual, informal politeness 04/20/2010 16
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implicit politeness - What an unpleasant voice! You don't know who sings? - My daughter. - I'm sorry. The point, of course, is not in the voice, but in the song. I'll tell you straight - it's never a good song. I wonder who wrote it? – Ya. 04/20/2010 17
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agreement: Exactly; Well, of course; yes, yes, yes; exactly a warning sentence: I’ll bring it to you; I'll do it. similar problem: I always forget everything too. I understand that everyone has little time, so what to do? 04/20/2010 18
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general knowledge: As we all know...; As we all know... knowledge of the desire of the interlocutor: I know that you don’t like to walk, maybe I’ll go with Sasha for an hour. I know that you love roses, but there were no roses and I brought you carnations. 04/20/2010 19
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A lie softens a negative assessment Andryusha, did you like my pies? - Not too much. 04/20/2010 20
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Politeness in intercultural communication
Every culture has its own concept of politeness. In Russian culture... to be polite means to follow the rules of behavior. politeness is confined to the subject. Politeness is directed at one's own and at one's elders. 04/20/2010 21
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Due to technical reasons, the flight is delayed by three hours. Der Abflug verzögert sich leider…Wir bitten um ihr Verständnis. 04/20/2010 22 Abb. 2
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Reasons for stereotypes about Russians in the Russian language The use of the imperative The use of the word – thank you How they express the invitation. It's my birthday on Saturday. Be sure to come. Refusals will not be accepted. I'm waiting. 04/20/2010 23
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Literature
Larina, T.V. (2003): “Politeness in intercultural communication.” in: Russian language abroad, 1; 100–105. Rathmayr, R. (1995): „Sprachliche Höflichkeit. Am Beispiel expliziter und impliziter Höflichkeit im Russischen.”, In: Girke (Hrsg.) (1996): Slavistische Linguistik 1995: Referate des XXI. Konstanzer Slavistischen Arbeitstreffens, Mainz 26. –29. 9. 1995. München: Sagner. [= Slavistische Beiträge; 342], 362–391. Sanikov, V. Z. (1999): Russian language in the mirror of the language game. Moscow: Languages of Russian culture. Formanovskaya, N.I. (1982): You said: “Hello”: Speech ethics in our communication. Moscow: Znanie. Formanovskaya, N. I. (1988): “Conversations about speech etiquette.” in: Russian speech, 2; 48–51. Formanovskaya, N. I. (1989): Speech etiquette and culture of communication. Moscow: Higher School. 04/20/2010 24
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Internet*
Abb. 1: http://eng.kremlin.ru/text/images/120447.shtml Abb. 2: http://powerk.livejournal.com/7244.html http://www.etiquette.ru/faq/6.shtml http://ru.wiktionary.org/wiki/%D0%B2%D0%B5 %D0%B6%D0%BB%D0%B8%D0%B2%D0%BE%D1%81%D1%82%D1%8C http://www.inosmi.ru/inrussia/20090803/251262.html http ://dasign.chat.ru/etiket/cont.html * alle Webseiten wurden am 5.04. 2010 zuletzt eingesehen. 25 04/20/2010
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Zhdanova N.D. Junior group teacher POLITENESS
What is politeness? The word “politeness” comes from the Old Slavonic “vezhe”, that is, “expert”. Being polite means knowing how to behave. Politeness is a moral quality of a person for whom respect for people is an everyday norm of behavior and a habitual way of treating others. It includes: attentiveness, showing goodwill towards everyone, willingness to provide a service to everyone who needs it, friendliness, delicacy, tact, modesty.
The history of the origin of the word "politeness" POLITENESS POLITENESS
In what cases do we use these words? Gratitude Farewell Request Apology Greeting
Magic words. What words do you think are called magic? Why? Thank you Sorry Please Forgive Hello Thank you These words make our speech more pleasant, warmer, more friendly.
Hello. I say to my friend: “Hello! “And he responded: “Great!” “There is nothing bad here, both words are suitable. To the eldest, if we meet him, First “Hello!” " we say. We wish you good health (health).
Goodbye. “Goodbye!” " - We say goodbye; That's what we're talking about, that we still have dates ahead of us, Many, many new meetings! "Goodbye" - i.e. we hope to see you again. Goodbye. Bye. See you.
There are not one or two polite words, Remember and know these miracle words! Thank you Please Why do we say “thank you”? Cancel, perhaps, the word “please”? For everything they do for us. We repeat it every minute. And we couldn’t remember, No, perhaps, without the word “please” Who was told how many times... We feel uncomfortable.
“Each of you guys has a magical power - the power of your words and actions” V. Oseeva
Before we part and everyone goes home, I would like to say goodbye, Wishing you at the same time, So that you are polite, Don’t forget the magic words, So that you speak with kind words to your friends.
Riddles Having met a bunny, the neighbor's hedgehog says to him: “...” HELLO!!!
And his big-eared neighbor answers: “Hedgehog, ....” Hello!
Flounder swam to the Octopus On Monday, And on Tuesday, in parting, she said to Her: “…..” Goodbye!
A wagtail from the shore dropped a worm, and for the treat the fish gurgled to her: “...” Thank you!
The Hippopotamus and the Elephant, believe me, will not fit through the door together. The one who is more polite will now say: “Only...” after YOU!
Tsar Gundey gave Ivan five nails for his salvation, And Ivanushka said to the Tsar: “...” Thank you!
Well done! Thank you for your attention!
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Politeness is brought up by politeness Parent meeting in the middle group February 2015
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Etiquette is a set of rules of conduct relating to attitude towards people (dealing with others, forms of address and greetings, manners of behavior in public places). Politeness is a way of applying etiquette. It is well known that the most important thing in raising a child to be polite is a constant good example.
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Parents are a tuning fork for a child: how they sound. True education consists not so much in rules as in exercises. (J. Rousseau) that’s how he will respond.
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Greet. First of all, adults themselves must be polite. Most parents teach their kids to wave goodbye and say “bye.” But the child will also have to say hello often: to family, friends, educators and teachers. From childhood, train this useful skill in a playful way, with dolls and bears. Play out different situations. This way the child will learn to say hello faster. Play “shop”, “guests”, “hospital”, “school” with your baby. When you meet neighbors and acquaintances, say hello. And boys can be taught to shake hands when meeting. This is a special ritual for men. And dad can show his son how men greet. After all, in childhood, dad is an example for the baby. What should adults teach children?
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Say “thank you.” The baby is often given gifts and treated to sweets. Remind him that it is customary to thank and say “thank you” for a kind gesture. If the child is still small and shy of strangers, then do not reproach him for his silence, but thank him for it yourself. Play with your baby and teach him to say the magic word. Read books, show clear examples of how to thank someone for kindness. Saying “please.” If a child hears this word often, then he says it himself. Use this word in your conversation at home, at the table. Ask your child politely to give you bread, a spoon, or something else; while playing, ask another child politely to give you a toy. Or when buying ice cream, do not forget the word “please” at the beginning of the phrase.
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Learn to say “sorry.” The child must understand that the word “sorry” is a step towards reconciliation and with its help you can improve relations with the one you offended. It, this word, is even a medicine for those who have been hurt. If you yourself inadvertently yelled at your child, be sure to apologize to him, in this way you will cultivate in the child the understanding that adults are sometimes wrong and admit it. If the child does not listen to you, pretend that you are offended. After a while, your child will ask for forgiveness.
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Don't interrupt. During a conversation, it is important to listen to the person to the end and let him finish his sentence before answering. This must also be observed in dialogue with children. And teach them not to interrupt their elders. If your baby wants to attract attention, teach him to do this with gestures: wave your hand or touch his arm, so that you immediately understand that he wants to say something and you can approach him when you are free. It’s not nice when adults talk, but a child constantly attracts attention to himself, asks questions or tries to distract you. Except for some very important information.
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Do not discuss others in public. Sometimes parents feel awkward because a child, for example, sees a person with dark skin or a physical disability on the street and screams, pointing at him, asking his mother why his uncle is black. Agree with your child that if he wants to ask something, you need to ask your question without attracting the attention of others. Explain that it is not customary to discuss other people’s appearance out loud: it is unpleasant for them, and for a child it is a sign of bad taste.
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Give way to the weak. By your personal example, teach your children to give up their seats to the weak: elderly people on public transport, a woman with a baby in line, tell your son to give up his seat to a girl. When entering a store, hold the door for another person. You can whisper in a child’s ear a reminder for help (helped your grandmother carry a bag of groceries to the refrigerator, cut a piece of pie. Respect the rules of another house. From childhood, children should be taught to behave in public places. Everywhere there are rules of behavior. In the theater, museum, You can’t shout or run around in a restaurant, but you can do this in the playground or in the park. In the clinic, you can’t jump on the bed when visiting.
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Close your mouth. Respecting the health of others around you and covering your mouth when you cough, yawn or chew is a courtesy and a safety measure. Friendliness and kindness towards others is the “golden rule”. This rule has a lot to do with empathy. This is one of the first rules you should teach your children. It will help them make friends and understand life situations well. Help others. This rule is closely related to the golden rule. Your child should be willing to help others if needed.
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Follow the rules. This last rule is basic, but mandatory. Respecting authority is also a manifestation of good manners and your child should know this. With these simple rules, you can teach your child the rules of etiquette, but this does not mean that the list of rules is final; you yourself can add to it what you see fit.
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Memo for parents “How to help your child be polite” Always strive to use polite “magic” words yourself in your speech. Remember that you are a shining example to follow. Convince your relatives surrounding the child that polite words are the norm in your family. Tell your child about the power of “magic words.” Always say hello and goodbye to your child. Try to use different forms of greeting and farewell (good afternoon, good morning, all the best, see you soon, all the best, etc.). Teach your child the basic rule of politeness: say hello always and everywhere to everyone you see for the first time that day. Don’t forget: when teaching politeness, always be polite yourself!
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Rules for raising a polite person Do not insult the human dignity of your son or daughter. Do not speak rude words in front of him, much less when addressing him. Do not use physical methods of punishment. Don't make endless comments about trivial matters. Encourage children's independence. Be unanimous and consistent in your demands. Do not express disagreement in front of the child. Before you make demands on your child, make them on yourself. Show interest in the child’s life and problems - by imitating, he will very soon return this to you. Be sincere: your apparent politeness and sensitivity to others is easily recognized by a child - he learns lies and hypocrisy. Treat other people tactfully, be patient with other people's shortcomings: this will be a lesson in kindness and humanity for your child. Don’t speak disrespectfully or badly about people: the child will grow up and begin to speak about you the same way. Behavior is the moral measure of a person. Show nobility under any circumstances. Be an example for your child.
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1. Start your morning with a smile. 2. Don't think about your child with anxiety. 3. Know how to read a child. 4. Don't compare children to each other. 5. Praise often and from the heart. 6. Separate the child's behavior from his essence. 7. Experience the joy of joint activities with your child. 8. Let your child know that he is the most loved and desired. 9. Do not be indifferent to the inner world and experiences of your children. 10. Try not to show your negative emotions to your children, do not set a bad example. 11. Try not to create situations in which the child can show his negative behavior. 12. Praise your child as much as possible, even for minor successes. 13. If you want to develop certain qualities in a child, try to treat him as if he has them. Rules of communication in the family
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How to develop politeness Studying etiquette. In order to follow generally accepted norms of behavior for a polite person, you need to know these norms. By studying etiquette and trying to follow it, a person develops politeness. Reading. Not every well-read person is polite, but every polite person is well-read. The broader a person’s horizons, the more respect he has for others; and the closer he is to cultivating politeness in himself. Work on yourself. By developing the ability to listen carefully to your interlocutor without interrupting, a person develops politeness. Communication. There is nothing better for achieving politeness than thoughtful communication with a polite person.
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Basic rules of cultural behavior that should be formed in a 4-5 year old preschooler: The ability to take into account the desires and intentions of other children in the game, play together with common toys, and give in. Children need to be taught to observe the rules of cultural behavior in public places, in transport, at the table, at a party, etc. Children should be taught the habit of always telling the truth. An important task that acquires special significance at this age level is the formation of relationships with adults and peers: a polite, attentive attitude towards adults, the ability to play friendly with children, and to protect the weak and offended. It is necessary to teach children to maintain order in the room. In the play corner. Rule: “Every thing has its place.”
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It’s just that children with good manners will find it easier to adapt to kindergarten and then to school; they will quickly learn to follow the rules adopted by the team. With such children it is easier to go on a visit, to a cafe, to public places, without thinking that they will throw a tantrum at you. With a polite child, not only will it be easier for those around him, but he will also feel better himself, because he will think about the feelings of other people and what needs to be said. This habit will come from the parents' home, where children will simply repeat what their parents do. "Do as I do." Teaching politeness - why is it needed?
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Presentation “Politeness is cultivated by politeness”
Parents are an example for a child in everything. And before you demand from him polite communication, follow yourself: Do you yourself use words like "Thank you", "Please", "Sorry", "Hello, "Goodbye", "Good morning", "Good night".
In order for a child to learn this while communicating in the family, he needs positive motivation.
He must be captivated, interested and definitely praised for action: “Look how happy grandma was that you said hello to her! She is pleased that you paid attention to her and wished her health! Well done!"
It is better not to impose rules of behavior, but to develop them during play or live communication with a child.
Be sure to tell us what they mean polite words. Learn magic words with your child politeness: good afternoon, hello, goodbye, good evening, good day, hello.
Repeated repetition will form the habit of saying hello and goodbye.
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